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MY FIRST GOD WAS PAPER

10/13/2018

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My first God was paper.
 
When I was about nine, my Dad read me 'Through a glass darkly' by Jostein Gaarder. It tells the story of a little girl who is dying and visited by an angel. It spoke to my soul (then buried under a heap of anxiety) and so I copied the main character in keeping a diary.
 
The page was the first and only place I could go and be fully myself. It was reliable, it didn't ask anything of me. It was an unparalleled listener.
 
My diary was trustworthy, though I did have fears of it being discovered. My older brother would peer into my bedroom and joke, ´what do you even have to write about for so long? I bet it reads, ´´Today I stayed in my room, alone...writing.´´
 
I wrote so much because the page was the only place where I was safe to feel, to say things I couldn't in the flesh. It has been, and still remains, one of the best places for rage.
 
I hope I can listen to people more like paper. Because these are not times for bottling anything in, but handling with a lot of care and neutrality the indignation which can carry us into a brighter future.
 
If I am listening like paper, it will allow people to be exactly who they are, however they feel in that moment.
 
Of course there is a time that calls for boundaries, for disagreement and even conflict. But this is different to control and resistance.
 
One of the key energetic principles is whatever you resist grows stronger. Listening in a way that is deeply engaged but non-judgemental, not invested in pushing and pulling, is the ideal context for an emotion to shift, and energy to rise.
 
Paper knows this, it doesn't try to cheer you up, calm you down, or convince you to see reason.
 
It has faith, it has seen it all before. It trusts that clarity, creativity, and intuition always arrive afterwards, in their own good time.
 
The other day I was triggered by something, sitting in tears and shame, feeling like I would be rejected if I told the truth.
 
Love sat next to me like paper, and said it would stay with me for as long as it takes.
 
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